i am so tired of saying "i'm sorry" for things i feel like doing, not doing, ect. i feel like i am constantly having to explain myself & my reasons for why i feel like doing certain things, my views on things & even more than that, the reason i DON'T want to do certain things! it's honestly exhausting & annoying!
i'm a grown woman, nearly 30 & still having to explain myself to everyone for every move i make! i don't really care if i'm wrong or right in someone else's opinion, because everyone has different views on life, how you should live, whats wrong or right, i'm sure everyone in the world can find about 50% of the population agrees with them on how they feel about each topic & 50% disagree.... it's life! you should never have to explain yourself for how you feel if it's not hurting anyone else. i just hate it! everything i do needs a damn explanation & i'm exhausted from it! i'm tired of saying "i'm sorry", so tired of it that i want to scream! i want to get something to shock me when i apologize for things i'm really not sorry for, because lets face it, if i were really sorry for how i feel i wouldn't feel that way right!?!
so let me list some shit i'm not sorry for, that i'm constantly apologizing for:
sending my food back when it's not made correctly/how i order it! not sorry because your sorry ass should have made it right in the first place OR made sure it was right before you ran it to my table.
not wanting to go out late at night. i'm not sorry for that because i feel like it's dangerous & uncalled for in most situations.... nothing good ever happens after midnight... unless you are at a concert or something that takes place at night. no reason to just get started after 9pm... what are you 16?!? geez!
enjoying staying home to watch "murder mystery shows" or football while i knit & crochet :) i'll never be sorry for that so screw everyone! to me, those are the best things to craft to & if you don't understand then obviously you are not a knitter/crocheter so :-P
not having any money to do things... guess what?!?! it sucks for me too but i make the best of it & i have to do my best to "just not think about it" apparently the job market sucks around here & i can't find a job :( having no money is no fun for me but i can't spend money i don't have, shit, can't shit money, don't have a money tree... ect.
being picky about things i don't want to be around... not going around cigarette smoke, i'm super allergic to that shit! even walking through it to leave a store makes my head hurt & if im exposed for long enough i get ear infections. not going around people who do drugs, i'm pushing 30... once again, i'm not 16! thats uncalled for & i shouldn't have to explain why i don't want to do that! not wanting to go around people who don't make their kids behave... not sorry for that! ever! when i was a kid i'd get my ass spanked for acting a fool, now it's called child abuse?? um no! sitting in time out obviously isn't working for your little bastards so...?
having ways i like things done... i've been around for a long time, lived alone for most of my life... of course i have things i like done a certain way! damn!
setting aside time to workout & not giving in to pressure to go out during those times... i only workout 3x a week & i enjoy it! a lot! if it's a monday, wednesday or friday during the day, chances are i'm working out & have my day planed around it.
being vegan / picky about where/what i eat. being vegan is a LIFE choice, not an effing diet! i'm not gonna change it just to be cool with you or to be friends.... duh!
not teaching people how to do things for free! i haven't had a real, leave the house, steady income job in about 9 months, i need money, i make & sell stuff. you have lost your damn mind if you think i'm teaching anyone how to do anything for free! especially something i'm trying to do to sell.. like make stuff! i'll happily take $25 an hour for teaching someone how to do thing i know how to do... minimum of 2 hours. lol!
also not sorry for having structure in my life... maybe slightly OCD... don't care! makes me happy so why should you care what i do?
oh & not answering my phone & text.. i'll get back to you as soon as i can/have time.
not going to my door... if you ring my door bell you had better have been invited to my home & i better know when you are coming! also, don't ring my fucking door bell! it scares my dogs! if i'm expecting you i'll be looking for you. otherwise don't bother me.
ok, i think i covered most of everything :-P
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if you don't like me for who i am & you are gonna hold a grudge against me because of anything i've done/said/not done, & be a bitch about it, not talk to me for "punishment", then screw you, you don't deserve my time so don't bother me. umkthanks :)
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i swear i'm not always as bitter as it seems in these recent post... just tired of crap & being told i'm a bad person for who i am. i love me the way i am & i'm proud of who i am && if you don't, no one is forcing you to be in my life! you haven't lived my life or walked a day in my shoes, so don't judge me!
